Rule 1: Never put anything on the counters or table as you come in the door.
These are forbidden dumping zones.
Rule 2: Always take shoes off at the door.
Hang up coats and backpacks here, too. (Or where ever you and the kids
come in
the door.)
Rule 3: Eat only in the kitchen and dining room.
In addition to being able to monitor what the kids eat, this simple rule keeps the whole house cleaner, too.
Rule 4: Always tidy up behind yourself.
If you're old enough to grab or make your own snack or meal, you're required to put away any dishes used, wipe down the prep area or cooktop, and put all utensils away.
Rule 5: Always put dishes into the dishwasher, not the sink.
Because the dishwasher uses less water than washing dishes by hand, only hand-wash larger, bulkier items that won't fit, or shouldn't be put in (wooden items) the dishwasher. Put everything else into the machine. A sink stop must be but temporary.
Rule 6: Wipe down counters after use.
Crummy way to live, with food all over countertops. Although insects don't necessarily think this way. (Need I say more?)
Rule 7: Close cabinet doors that you open.
Kids - and some grown-ups - have a habit of leaving doors open after perusing the contents. Nip this one in the bud.
Rule 8: Ask to be excused from the table.
It's simply polite, and respectful to the chef du jour.
Rule 9: Ask before snacking or having dessert.
If kids must receive permission for these items, parents can keep tabs on family nutrition easier.
Rule 10: If you eat and can reach the counter, bus your own plate.
It's only fair, after all, that everyone pitches in in the kitchen. (See 4 above.)