The arrival of August means one thing for parents: It's time to start getting our summer slackers geared up for back to school.
Just when you've got summer's rule-free days figured out, here come the rigid class and homework schedules that mark the new season.
No problem, right? You're the parent and you've got a handle on things. And if you don't (or don't just yet) these tips for going back to school will help you get it all done in the days ahead.
Put on the no-nonsense drill sergeant's hat for this back to school wardrobe makeover. With your son or daughter's assistance, throw out or give away everything that's too grungy or small to wear to school again this year.
Make a list of what you'll need when you go back to school shopping in the days ahead (a new sweater, pair of pants) based on what's heading out the door.
If school uniforms are a part of the program, this is a good time to start ordering new sweatshirts or sweaters and the like.
Consider devoting a couple of drawers and/or part of the closet to school clothes - especially if your kids wear uniforms.
This way, your student will know the night before whether he or she has something appropriate to wear the next day with a single glance before bed. Inventory what you have, and make a shopping list for the rest. Be sure to take advantage of end-of-season and Labor Day sales, or shop for school supplies online.
Help the kids clean out their bathrooms of last semester's hair gels and stretched-out scrunchies.
Make sure your son or daughter has everything needed to streamline morning grooming. This is especially important if you've got teens.
If you have a couple of kids with a shared family bathroom, keep it simple and avoid the "It's her/his mess!" argument before voices (and tempers) rise.Get each child a different color handled bathroom tote, inside which he or she can stash all his or her grooming supplies. Then just pick up and go! (To the bathroom for tooth brushing and other pre-school hygiene essentials, that is.)
Create a homework center. Choose a place where each child can work in comfort and without distraction. Stock nearby drawers or cabinets with school supplies. Buy a file bin to store on-going projects and finished work.
If you already have an area in place, now's the time to go out with the old and in with the new.
Set up 'in' and 'out' boxes for school papers. Kids unload backpacks and drop off papers to be checked, signed, etc., in the 'in' box. You leave signed papers, money, permission slips in the 'out' box.
Create a backpack drop zone near the entry door. They're going to drop those backpacks the minute they're inside anyway, so why not be prepared with a place to actually catch them?
It can be anything that fits the space and your family's style - cubbies, storage bins, even a spot on the floor. But make sure you designate an area somewhere, or you'll be tripping over backpacks for the next nine months.
Make a back to school shopping checklist of everything the kids need for school from clothes to classroom supplies to lunch boxes. Go together to the mall that's got it all. (As if there are any that don't anymore...)
And anything that's not on the back-to-school list, they pay for. Period. Otherwise, it's like Christmas in August. Set rules before you enter that cavernous place so that you can keep whining to a minimum.
Launder up: Make sure clothes are clean and hemmed or repaired if needed. Arrange your schedule: Now's the time to firm up carpools to school and after school activities.