Dashboard Dining: Should Kids Eat in the Car?

Dashboard dining, yes or no? It's a topic of great parental debate: should you let your family eat in the car?

Different parents have different tolerance levels. And family size matters. With one child, you can afford to be more lenient about dashboard dining than when you're chauffeuring a mob.

Ideally, kids don't eat on the road, for the sake of the car's interior, their clothes and our nerves. But real-life schedules don't always cooperate with that rule.

Here's how to decide whether dashboard dining works for your family car, which snacks to allow, and how to clean up when the crumbs win.

When Dashboard Dining Makes Sense

Let's be honest: when you're facing a 500-mile road trip, you'll find yourself bending the rules to keep the peace. In those situations, dashboard dining is a practical solution. Same goes for the dinner-between-practices shuffle, when the only table available is a car seat.

As kids get older (and easier to quiet), plenty of parents get stricter about eating in the car. Both approaches work. Just pick one and stick with it.

Rules of the Road for Eating in the Car

If food is allowed in the car, here are the rules of the road:

•      Non-sticky and non-staining only. No chocolate (and if someone forgets that rule, here's how to get chocolate stains out of upholstery), no grape juice, nothing that's hard to clean up.

•      Water is the only drink. Spilled water dries. Spilled juice, soda and milk become a permanent part of the car. Milk is the worst offender: by the third hot day, everyone will know exactly where it spilled.

•      Snacks come in containers with lids, not open bags.

•      Every kid gets a napkin or a wipe before the food comes out.

•      Trash goes in the car's trash bag, not in the seat pocket and not on the floor.

•      The eater cleans up. Crumbs get brushed into the trash bag before anyone gets out of the car.

One father I know has banned fish crackers and popcorn from his car because they're impossible to get out once they're (inevitably) ground into the carpet.

The Best (and Worst) Car Snacks for Kids

Car Snack Safety for Little Kids

The driver can't see or help a child who's choking, so be careful about what young children eat in the car.

•      For kids under 4, skip the common choking hazards: popcorn, nuts, whole grapes, hot dogs, hard candy, raw carrots and chunks of cheese or meat.

•      For babies and toddlers, an adult sits in the back while they eat, or you pull over for a snack stop.

•      If a child starts choking, pull over right away and help them.

•      Kids eat sitting up and buckled in, never reclined or asleep.

The Car Cleaning Routine for Dashboard Diners

If your kids eat in the car, vacuum the inside every week. If you don't let them eat at the dashboard diner, you can get away with vacuuming once a month.

Clean Up Spills Right Away

Use an upholstery or carpet cleaner on carpet and fabric seats. Blot, don't rub. For spills on the plastic console between the seats, baby wipes are handy.

I've wiped up more tea spills from my own travel mug than from the kids' drinks, but the baby wipes work so well you'd never know.

Keep a spill kit in the car: baby wipes, a roll of paper towels, a small spray bottle of upholstery cleaner and a few trash bags.

Weekly (or at Least Monthly) Wipe-Down

1.     Wipe the dashboard and doors with a damp cloth or baby wipes.

2.     Clean the vents and hard-to-reach spots with a damp brush. (An old toothbrush or a makeup brush works.)

3.     Wipe out the cup holders. Pop out the rubber inserts if they lift out, and wash them in the sink.

4.     Vacuum the seats, floor mats and car seat crevices. That's where the Cheerios go to retire.

5.     Apply vinyl cleaner and protectant to the dashboard and the doors.

Happy travels!

Have kids help with the cleanup. Here's what kids can do at every age: Car Chores for Kids by Age.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should kids eat in the car?

It's your call. Ideally, no. It's easier on the car, the kids' clothes and your nerves. But on road trips and busy days, dashboard dining is practical. Pick a rule and stick with it.

What are the best snacks to eat in the car?

Non-sticky, non-staining snacks in lidded containers, like string cheese, pretzel rods, apple slices, crackers and dry cereal. Make water the only drink.

Is it safe for toddlers to eat in the car?

It's riskier, because the driver can't see or help a choking child. Skip choking hazards like popcorn, nuts and whole grapes for kids under 4, have an adult sit in back, or pull over for snack stops.

How often should you vacuum the car if kids eat in it?

Once a week. If there's no food in the car, once a month is usually enough.

How do you get food stains out of car seats?

Blot the spill right away, then use an upholstery cleaner on fabric seats and a damp cloth on leather or vinyl. For chocolate, see the chocolate stain removal guide.

Keep Going

The crumbs are gone (for now). Keep the family car, and the family, in shape:

•      Organizing the Family Car: Everything you need to keep the car clean and organized.

•      Car Chores for Kids by Age: What kids can do to keep the car clean, from toddlers to teens.

•      How to Remove Chocolate Stains: For when someone forgets the no-chocolate rule.

•      Laundry and Stain Removal Guide: For the clothes that came home wearing lunch.

•      How to Vacuum Properly: 12 secrets to cleaner floors, car mats included.

•      Chores for Kids by Age: Jobs for every room in the house, from toddlers to teens.

•      Weekly Chores for Kids by Age: Add the car vacuuming to the weekly rotation.

•      Allowance for Kids' Chores: Should cleaning out the car earn a little cash?

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