Here's what happens every December. The holiday boxes come down from the attic: the tree, the lights, the 47 nutcrackers, the snow village with its own zip code. And they all need somewhere to go. But every shelf, table and corner is already full of the stuff that lives there the other eleven months.
So the everyday stuff gets shoved into piles. The holiday stuff gets crammed around the piles. And by Christmas morning, the new gifts have nowhere to land at all.
The fix is simple: donate before you decorate. Clear out first, while it's still November, and you'll have room for the holidays, room for the gifts, and a nice warm feeling that someone else is wearing that coat you haven't touched in three winters.
WhenEarly November Mid-November Thanksgiving weekend Before the boxes come down While you decorate |
MissionCoat closet and linen closet. Winter coats and blankets are needed now Kitchen clear-out, before Thanksgiving cooking starts. Kids' toys and clothes, before the holiday wish lists arrive. Clear the surfaces the decorations will take over. Purge the holiday decorations themselves. |
Grab four bags or boxes and label them:
Set a timer for 30 minutes per area. Decluttering in short bursts beats the all-day marathon that ends with you sitting in a pile of old photos, crying over a third-grade report card.
Guests are coming, and their coats need somewhere to go besides your bed. Pull out every coat, jacket, scarf, hat and glove. Donate the coats nobody wears and the kids have outgrown. Pair up the gloves, and let the orphans go. Many communities run winter coat drives this time of year, so your extras can keep someone warm next week.
Holiday guests mean fresh sheets and towels, so make sure you can find them. Donate extra sheet sets and blankets in good condition. Got old towels and worn blankets? Call your local animal shelter. Many are happy to take them.
Clear out before the holiday baking and cooking begins. Let go of the duplicate gadgets, mugs from events you don't remember, the bread machine you used twice, and the food storage containers without lids. Donate unexpired, unopened canned and boxed food to a food bank, where it's needed most during the holidays.
This is the big one, because new toys are on the way. Let the kids help: have each one pick a few toys and books to give to children who need them. They're far more generous when they get to choose, and it's a great lesson in what the holidays are about. For a full plan, see how to organize kids' rooms before Christmas.
The mantel, the entry table, the sideboard, the corner where the tree goes. Clear the everyday decor off them, and while you're at it, decide which pieces you still love. Pack the keepers into the empty decoration bins until January. Donate the rest.
Here's the part everyone forgets. The decorations themselves need decluttering, and the best time to do it is as they come out of the boxes. Sort as you unpack:
Donating holiday decor before Christmas is extra kind, because someone else gets to use it this year. For more on storing what you keep, see these Christmas organizing ideas.
WhatClothes, housewares, books, toys Winter coats Furniture, building supplies, appliances Unexpired, unopened food Old towels and blankets Work clothes Books |
Where to tryThrift stores run by charities, like Goodwill and the Salvation Army Local coat drives, shelters, schools and places of worship Habitat for Humanity ReStores Local food banks and food pantries Animal shelters Organizations that dress job seekers, like Dress for Success Your library's Friends of the Library book sale |
Every charity has its own rules, so check what yours accepts before you load the car.
Charities spend real money hauling away donations they can't use, so a little honesty goes a long way.
The most dangerous place for a donation bag is the garage. It sits there until spring, and slowly, the stuff wanders back into the house. Do this instead:
Gifts are coming, so try the one-in, one-out rule: for every new toy, sweater or kitchen gadget that comes into the house this season, something old goes out. It keeps all that hard-won space clear through January and beyond.
Need help letting go? My book, Room by Room, walks you through decluttering every room in the house, without the guilt.
When should I declutter before Christmas?
Start in early November and finish before the holiday decorations come out. That leaves time to drop off donations while charities need them most.
What should I declutter before the holidays?
Start with the coat closet, linen closet, kitchen, kids' toys and the surfaces your decorations will take over. Then sort through the holiday decorations as you unpack them.
How do I declutter Christmas decorations?
Sort them as you unpack. Test the lights, toss anything broken, donate what you didn't use last year, and keep only the decorations you love.
Where can I donate before Christmas?
Try charity thrift stores, local coat drives, food banks, animal shelters and Habitat for Humanity ReStores. Check what each one accepts before you drop off.
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