A party friendly home means more than being a good hostess and having people over (though it is about that, too).
Being a good hostess is really about making everyone - from drop-in guests to your kids' sleepover friends - feel both welcome and at home.
This doesn't require sophisticated interior design (in fact, it precludes that look-but-don't-touch decor.)
Good hostessing does, however, require keeping the home somewhat tidy most of the time so that you can let people in without visibly cringing. These 5 tips can help ensure you're ready for any entertaining adventure.
If you can't keep your entire home party-ready, at least keep one or two rooms clutter free, just in case. I keep the kitchen and the living room company-ready. The living room is presentable in case business associates or more formal acquaintances drop by.
The kitchen is where I herd my friends. We can chat while I brew tea or make coffee.
And if my guests drop in while I'm busy... well, I'm usually busy in the kitchen, so that works, too. They can sip tea while I clear the breakfast dishes or prepare dinner.
I have to admit that in real life, it seems that whenever you have 10 loads of laundry spread across the kitchen floor and the cat has just barfed in the entry hall, the doorbell rings. And the one time you pray that it's a solicitor, it's your fastidious empty-nest neighbor dropping by.
With all the granite counters, stainless steel appliances, and fluorescent lighting, kitchens can feel cold. The trick here is to make the kitchen seem inviting.
To warm kitchens up, always have the kitchen table or counter set with placemats and flowers. Put a basket filled with different types of tea bags there along with a tin of cookies.
Think of the little cafes where you just want to sit and linger. Go for that look. This means, of course, that kitchens can't be dumping grounds.
Make kids put away their backpacks. Keep the heart of your home uncluttered at all times. It will make cooking more enjoyable, too.
If you decide to use the living room for drop-ins, make sure that it's cozy. On a cold day, that's easy enough to do by lighting a fire and gathering two easy chairs around it.
If a fire is not in the cards, group two cozy chairs with a small table in between. Then you can enjoy an intimate conversation with tea or coffee even in the most formal living area.
If the weather cooperates, outdoors is always best for spontaneous entertaining. You don't have to worry about cobwebs. Hey, it's all part of nature, right?
Just have a nice tray handy, throw on some iced tea or lemonade and cookies, and zip outside. All you need are two comfy chairs, a table, and some shade. A view would be nice, but it's hardly required. This is the essence of a party friendly home.
Remember that kids have drop-in guests, too. Usually they will be off to the resident child's bedroom, but it's a good idea to have designated places where kids can offer their guests a snack.
Let your kids know in advance which snacks are allowed and where they are to be consumed. (And be sure to remind the kids that they have to clean up behind themselves and their guests.)