Out of sight, out of mind, or so the adage goes.
But you can only go on dumping the excess of daily life into drawers, piling it in the basement, or tossing it in a box for so long.
Sooner or later, the drawers will get stuck, the basement walkway will disappear, and the box will overflow.
And the already space-crunched surfaces in your home will be teeming with stuff. What's the solution?
Begin by clearing out what you can, finding a place for what's left, and creating a system for organizing the new things that come through your doors.
These tips for getting organized at home can help.
Before you can start getting organized, you'll need to lighten up on your belongings.
You know what's coming: You need to go through your stuff and toss what you don't use, don't need, and don't want.
Many of us have stuff we never use and don't need. We even have stuff we don't like. And so do our kids.
So don't be a hoarder. And teach your kids not to be, either.
This is not a Saturday morning project. Don't plan on purging the house of a year's or a decade's worth of clutter in a morning. Allot at least a half day per room.
Yuck! You hate it. It's no good to anyone. How did it get here?
Here are some good rules to live by as you begin getting rid of clutter. Get rid of it if:
Once you have a pile of throw-aways, grab the kids and go through the to-be-trashed stash, separating plastic, paper, glass, and cardboard - whatever is recycled in your community.
Take the time to figure out where each of the keeper items should go - and put it there. You may have to move things around a couple of times until you find that perfect place space for an item.
Take your time. The better you organize things initially, the easier it will be for them to stay that way. It took you a long time to get this messy, so don't expect to clean up your act in one weekend.
You don't use it now, and neither do the kids. But maybe someday you could use it. And it would be too expensive to replace, or it has sentimental value.
For things you really don't use now but can't part with, the solution is to find a safe place to store it long term.
Few of us are blessed with an overabundance of storage, so we've got to develop a system that maximizes what we do have.
And if that system is going to work, the whole family has to be in on it. This will help everyone down the road.
You need a written plan to keep from forgetting what you stored where. And you need to tell the rest of the family where you put that written plan.